Sunday, December 24, 2023

Monday Morning Memo (on Sunday!) - “ME-DAY”? I Don’t Think So

Don’t freak out…it’s not Monday yet!  Yes, this is my Monday Morning Memo…but I felt like it might be better to send it a day early this time.  Why?  Because hopefully what God has laid on my heart to share…will help us prepare for tomorrow…which as I’m sure you know is Christmas Day.  So…here goes…

“It’s not about you.”  If that statement sounds familiar, it probably means you have read Rick Warren’s book, The Purpose Driven Life.  It is the very first sentence in chapter 1.  He goes on to say, “The purpose of your life is far greater than your own personal fulfillment, your peace of mind, or even your happiness.  It’s far greater than your family, your career, or even your wildest dreams and ambitions.  If you want to know why you were placed on this planet, you must begin with God.  You were born by his purpose and for his purpose.”

Warren’s words have been coming to mind often this past week as I’ve been trying to prepare my heart and mind for Christmas.  Unfortunately, of all the holidays that we celebrate, I’m guessing that Christmas is probably one of the hardest for many to realize that it’s not about us.  All we have to do is turn on the television, the radio, open up one of the zillions of ads which we are bombarded with and we are told over and over again what WE need.  We need to buy this…we must have that…we need to make sure and include this on our Christmas list.  We won’t be happy, and our life just won’t be complete unless the gifts under the tree are exactly what we want.

I can’t believe this is what God had in mind when He sent his Son into the world on that night so long ago.  I can’t imagine that His plan was to have his Son born, so that once a year I can be selfish and hope I am showered with gifts.  If that was His desire, He wouldn’t have had to have a baby born.  He could have just started a tradition of a day that we celebrate called, “ME-DAY”. 

What would it be like if, several weeks before my birthday, my family would come to me and give me lists of what they want me to buy for them to celebrate the day I was born?   What if when my day arrives, they all run in and say, “What did you get me?  Where are my gifts?  What are we going to do to celebrate me?”  I’m guessing I might be a little hurt.  I’m speculating I might feel somewhat neglected…somewhat disappointed in those whom I thought loved me.

I wonder then how Jesus feels when we hand Him our lists of what we want.  When we hound him over and over again, telling Him what He needs to do for us and how He needs to bless us.  I wonder if He feels a little hurt.  I wonder if He feels a little neglected…maybe disappointed in us for saying that He means the world to us but showing something different with our actions.

I’ve come to the realization that Christmas is not about me.  Unfortunately, it’s not about you either.  It is all about Him.  The precious, tiny baby Jesus entered this world because of His great love for us.  He entered this world so that He would grow up to become a very important part of history.  His story is one of truth, hope and love for you and for me.  His life entered this world so that one day He would pay the price for the things we have done wrong.  His life brought us salvation and He was willing to sacrifice everything He had for you and for me.

Doesn’t it make sense then that Christmas, His birthday, should be all about Him?  I happen to think it does.  

As we celebrate Jesus’ birthday tomorrow, let’s make a point to ask Him what He wants from us.  Let’s do everything we can to show Him, not just with our words but also with our actions, just how much we love Him.  He should be the guest of honor of our celebration so let’s make sure He knows that it IS all about Him!    

O come let us adore Him

O come let us adore Him

O come let us adore Him

Christ the Lord!

 

For He alone is worthy

For He alone is worthy

For He alone is worthy

Christ the Lord!




Monday, December 18, 2023

Monday Morning Memo: Are You Seen?

Do you ever wonder if God sees you?  Or even hears you?  If I am honest, I have to admit that I do wonder sometimes.  I mean, it’s not like we can see Him in physical form…or touch Him…or audibly hear Him speak to us.  So, it’s not surprising that we have times when we wonder.

Is that a bad thing?  Do I think that God shakes His head and is disappointed in us when we wonder?  I don’t think so.  God loves us immeasurably and He understands every emotion…every desire…every concern we have.  I believe it is at those times when He wants to show us that He does see us and hear us…even in the little things of life.

You may be wondering what in the world led me to write about this today.  Well, it stems from something that happened to me last week.  Let me explain.  Christmas looks a little different at my house this year.  I’m not a huge decorator for any season or holiday…but I usually put up our tree and a variety of decorations at Christmas.  This year though has been different because I decided it just wasn’t wise for me to do it.  Since I am supposed to stay off my feet as much as possible, setting everything up and then having to put it away again…wasn’t something that made sense.

Now, I’ve been ok with this decision…until last Wednesday.  We were having our small group from church over for dinner and not having a festive looking home bothered me.  I asked Dan that afternoon to bring in a small ceramic tree which was his mother’s…so we would at least have something with lights.  But as I set the table…all I could think about was the fact that the table was bare.  I wished I would have at least unpacked something to put down the center…but it was too late at that point and I knew it really wasn’t a necessity.

Dinner was set for 6 pm, but one of the couples texted to say they were running ahead of schedule and would arrive around 5:30 pm…which was just fine with us!  We love our small group and enjoy spending as much time with them as possible.  As they entered our home, they carried with them the beautiful Christmas decoration in the picture I am sharing in this post.  And not just one of them…but four of them! Kathy had lovingly made these as a gift to give each couple.

At that moment…a lightbulb went on in my head and my face lit up.  I asked Kathy if it was ok if I put her creations down the middle of our table as decoration.  I told her how much it had bothered me to not have anything there and her gifts were just perfect!  Of course she graciously agreed with my idea and suddenly everything looked much more Christmas-y!

Was this a coincidence?  I don’t think so.  First of all, Quinn and Kathy were running ahead of schedule, so they arrived before everyone else.  This allowed us to get the table decorated before anyone else appeared.  Secondly, of all the things that she could have brought…she walked in with handmade decorations which fit my table perfectly.   

This event may not seem too notorious to you…but to me it was just what I needed.  It was a reminder to me from God that He sees me.  He knows my hurts; those things…however small…that cause me pain.  Things that aren’t life or death…but just trigger me to feel discouraged and “less”.  

I’ve been thinking since that night, how easy it would have been to just chalk this evening up to luck or coincidence…but I’m so thankful that God impressed on me that this was His way of blessing me.  And do you know what?  I presume there are blessings all around you too.  During those times when life gets you down and you are feeling discouraged…take notice of everything around you.  I’m guessing that God is working overtime at those moments to make sure you know that He sees you…He loves you…and wants to encourage you.

And who knows…maybe you don’t need encouragement but someone you encounter does.  Maybe they need you to do something special for them so they know that not only you care…but God does too.  So, let’s be on the lookout today because I’m guessing there are people all around us who are wondering if anyone really “sees” them.  Let’s make sure they know that we do…and so does our Heavenly Father.

So encourage each other 

and build each other up, 

just as you are already doing.


1 Thessalonians 5:11

Monday, December 11, 2023

Monday Morning Memo: Public Service Announcement

Dan and I just returned from working at the Operation Christmas Child Processing Center in Boone, North Carolina.   This is a trip we look forward to each year and it always seems like the hours just fly by and before we know it…we are heading back home.

Many of you always make a point to fill boxes for this worthy cause.  But I was thinking there might be some of you who aren’t familiar with what happens to your box after you drop it off at a collection center.  You may be under the assumption that your box goes directly to the blessed child after leaving the collection center…but that is not the case.  So, I thought I would use my blog post today as a Public Service Announcement to fill you in on some of the details.

After the boxes are dropped off at the collection location in your area, they are then secured with rubber bands and packed in larger cartons so they can be taken to one of the eight processing centers across the country…like the one we worked at in Boone.  The cartons are then unloaded from the semi-trucks and placed at the end of each processing line.  This is the area where we work each day.

The first person on the line is the pre-inspector (this is usually my job).  I take a shoebox from a large carton, remove the rubber bands and place them inside the box (they say the recipients love getting these bands!).  My job is to make sure the top of the box has a label on it with the information marked as to whether the box is for a boy or girl and the age group for which it was packed.  I then open the box and look for any money that may be inside.  They ask that you give $10.00 for each shoebox you pack to help defray the shipping costs and so my job is to remove that money and drop it into a safe box.  This is why it is so helpful if you put the money on top of all the contents of the box so it can be easily seen.  Some choose to pay the shipping money online, so not every box will have money…but it’s my responsibility to search the contents for any checks or cash.  Not only is it important to find the money to help with shipping…but we are told that if cash is left in the box…the child receiving the box could be in danger if it is made known they had been given money.

I then pass this box on to one of the “inspectors” (usually two on each side of the line).  Their job is to go through everything in the box to make sure there is nothing inappropriate.  What I mean by this is that there are various items that are not allowed in the countries where these boxes are sent…so they need to be removed before shipping.  There are also items which are not allowed because they could break during shipping and cause damage to the other contents.

Examples of inappropriate items are shampoo, body wash, snow globes, juice boxes, lotions, bubbles, toothpaste etc.  Food items are not allowed because it sometimes takes 4-6 months for a box to reach its location and these foods wouldn’t be fresh after that length of time.  One year we had a box which contained homemade cookies…which was a nice thought…but they would have been rather nasty by the time the child received them!  We are also instructed to remove used or damaged items, war-related items such as toy guns, knives, or military figures, medications, vitamins or aerosol cans.  Whatever is taken out of the box is not thrown away…but is given to children in need inside the United States who can receive it more quickly.  

The inspector then has “filler” items in front of them which they can add to the box to replace the things that needed to be removed.  This ensures that each child receives a well-filled box at the time of distribution.  

Once the box is adequately filled, it is then given to the “taper”.  This person runs tape completely around the box to ensure that the lid stays closed and no items are lost.

The box is then handed to one of the “packers”.  These workers (usually three or four of them) check to see if there is a “Follow Your Shoebox” label on the box.  If there is, then the barcode on the label is scanned along with the code on the larger shipping box.  This information is then sent to the person who originally packed the shoebox so they know exactly where their box was distributed.

The packers then place the shoeboxes in the larger shipping box according to whether they are for a boy or a girl and by the age for which they are designated.  The packers’ job is sometimes like putting a puzzle together, since there are various sizes of boxes and tubs used.  They need to be good at figuring out how to get all the mismatched boxes in the shipping box without lost space.   

Once the shipping box is full, the packer places the large carton on a conveyor belt, which moves the box to the end of the line.  At that location the box is taped closed and loaded in a semi-truck to begin its journey to its final location.

The goal this year at the Boone processing center is to process 780,000 shoeboxes….and that is just for one center!  It is an amazing experience to be a part of such a worthy cause.

Do these boxes have an impact on the recipients?  There is a man who, at the age of seven, was in an orphanage with 250 children in Rwanda.  He said excitement was high when they received their boxes…because this was the first gift any of them had EVER received!  Can you imagine?  As a result of being given this box, along with the fact that He was introduced to Jesus through this event, he asked Jesus into his heart.

I remember hearing from a regional director for East Africa who told of one of his trips to deliver the boxes.  He talked to a young boy, Frankie, and asked him what he hoped to get in his box.  Frankie answered that he wanted a blue shirt with buttons down the front.  The director started to tell him that he was doubtful he would get a shirt like that in his box, but before the words came out of his mouth, he felt the Lord telling him to be quiet and not squelch the boy’s enthusiasm.  

Sometime later, the director saw Frankie and asked him what was in his box.  With his face beaming, he showed the man the blue shirt with buttons down the front which he had received.  He was so excited and said he wanted the shirt to wear to church on Sunday.  Later, after returning to the states, the director was telling this story and a woman’s face lit up.  She said she had been in Walmart and found 10 blue, buttoned down shirts for $1.00 a piece, so she had bought them all and put one in each of her boxes.  Coincidence?  I think not!

In another instance there were two brothers, but because there weren’t enough boxes to give to everyone, only one of the brothers received a box.  But when the one boy opened his box, there were two of everything inside.  Once again, the Lord had provided.

When you hear of children who are thrilled to finally have their very own toothbrush, instead of having to share one toothbrush between many children…children who are thrilled to finally have a bowl to put soup in – instead of having to cup their hands to hold the hot broth…children who receive a shoebox as their first present ever and as a result, ask Jesus into their heart…it makes time spent filling shoeboxes as time well spent.

If you have never filled a shoebox, I urge you to do it next year.  In fact, you can still fill a shoebox online for this year at https://www.samaritanspurse.org/operation-christmas-child/buildonline/.  For $25.00 (which includes shipping) you can “build” a shoebox which will be sent to a child to make sure they know that Jesus loves them.  It’s a small price to pay to have a huge impact on eternity!

“Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the creation of the world.  For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home.  I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’

 

“Then these righteous ones will reply, ‘Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing?  When did we ever see you sick or in prison and visit you?’

 

“And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!’”

 

Matthew 25:34-40

Monday, December 4, 2023

Monday Morning Memo: The Most Needed Gift

Well, we’ve turned the page on the calendar and December is upon us.  It’s so hard to believe it will soon be Christmas!  This fall has just sped by and now we begin a month which will surely go by even faster.

 

We often think of this time of year being filled with gift buying, gift giving, parties and the making of wonderful memories.  While this may be true for many, I think we need to remember that it isn’t true for all.  For some, this time of year only reminds them of what they don’t have, can’t give or the parties to which they won’t be invited.  Their days can be depressing, and they can feel inferior to those whose Facebook posts tell a tale of Christmas perfection.

 

I just feel led today to make sure that everyone reading this knows that your worth is not related to how much money you have…how many gifts you buy or receive…or how many gatherings to which you are invited.  Your heavenly Father determines your worth and He created you in His image!  Genesis 1:27 says, “So God created human beings in his own image.  In the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.”  How amazing is that!  You and I were created to look like Him and as the saying goes, God doesn’t make no junk!

 

Before you were created, God created everything else we see in our universe.  The majestic mountains, the beautiful oceans, the sun, the moon, the stars, the trees, the flowers…even the animals…but He knew that the world was not complete without you.  He made you to be a “one-in-a-million” kind of person and He loves you more than you can imagine.  

 

Did you know that Jesus died for you, knowing that you might never love Him back?  That is true love.   His love is not based on how much wealth you have or how popular you are or on how many gifts you have under your Christmas tree.  There is nothing that you have done which can diminish His love for you.  He loves you for who you are right now, at this very moment. 

 

If you are struggling this year with all the festivities going on around you, don’t ever forget how much you are loved.  Don’t ever weigh your worth based on what others say or think of you because your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.  Also, your worth will never be based on what you have done, but on what He, Jesus Christ, has done for you.  Remember, He loved you enough to die for you, so don’t ever let anyone else tell you otherwise.

 

If this is a joyful time for you, make sure and be on the lookout for those who may need to know that someone cares about them this season.  It could be an overworked cashier, a mother trying to shop with young children, a co-worker whose family lives miles away or it could even be that person sitting next to you in the pew at church.  Your smile may be just what they need to get through their day and have a more positive feeling this Christmas.  So, reach out and let someone know what his or her worth is in Christ.  It just might be their most needed gift this Christmas!