Monday Morning Memo: What If?

Because of what we are all currently experiencing in our world, it is so easy to become frustrated and at times…even a little ticked.  I know I’m perturbed that I am unable to worship in my church on Sundays, with my church family.  I’m exasperated that I can’t meet with my small group from church for our time of fellowship, prayer and Bible study.  I’m annoyed that I can’t go to a restaurant and actually eat inside its doors.  I’m frustrated that we can’t get in to see our elderly relatives that are living in facilities that have had to close their doors to visitors to try to keep their residents well.  And I’m really ticked I can’t be as close as I want to be with my children and grandchildren, hugging them and spending precious time with them.

There have been some positives.  Because we can’t go to our church on Sundays, we have been spending that time not only watching our service online…but several others online also.  Life has been at a slower pace which has allowed more time to read, try new recipes, work on that puzzle I wrote about last week and learn how to put together a pick up order at our grocery store (yes, I’m a little behind the times!). 

I was thinking about all of this the other day when I came across this graphic.  It made me start thinking about some other What if’s…

         What if  as a result of this pandemic…families are drawn closer together because their schedules aren’t so crazy running from one sports event or practice to another…

         What if  as a result of this pandemic…families are drawn closer together because their schedules aren’t so crazy and they begin to realize what is really important in life…

         What if  as a result of this pandemic…families are drawn closer together because their schedules aren’t so crazy and they realize what is really important in life, and they find they have more time to tune in to the online church services that are now being offered.

         What if  as a result of this pandemic, families are drawn closer together because their schedules aren’t so crazy and they realize what is really important in life, and they find they have more time to tune in to the online church services that are being offered and as a result, they hear about the hope of the gospel.  And…

         What if  as a result of this pandemic, families are drawn closer together because their schedules aren’t so crazy and they realize what is really important in life, and they find they have more time to tune in to the online church services that are being offered and as a result, they hear about the hope of the gospel, their hearts are softened and they come to know our Jesus and accept Him as their Lord and Savior?

Trust me…this is only one “What if?” scenario I could list here.  I can think of many.  And before you remind me of all of the tragic loss of life, job loss and financial loss there has been as a result of this horrible virus, I want to make sure you know that I understand all of that and I never want to act oblivious to all the pain it has caused.  But I think it is important that we stop and think of the positives that could transpire as a result of the “sacrifices” we are making now.

What if?  Will all of this craziness and quarantining and not being able to go to the restaurant or sporting event that we want to go to or the inability to worship together in our church building…be worth it?  Each person has to answer that question for his or her self.  I just know that we serve a God who is SO powerful and can work miracles even during times of frustration, despair and being ticked off.  He, unlike us, has NO limitations! 

 “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. 

He brought me to this position 

so I could save the lives of many people.”

Genesis 50:20

Monday Morning Memo: Puzzled?

I caved.  Even though I know I’m not supposed to…I gave in to peer pressure.  SO many people were posting pictures on Facebook that they were doing it…and I just finally caved. 

Yes, just like so many, I started a puzzle during this time of quarantine.  To be honest…I’m not a puzzle person.  It’s just too much monotony for me.  All the pieces look pretty much the same in my mind and to sit and try to find the exact piece to go into the exact place…is just too much stress.  Everyone else makes it seem so simple…they are posting one trillion-piece puzzle after another and they seem so satisfied and fulfilled in their accomplishment…and instead I just end up with a headache.

Maybe I would have felt better about myself if I would have started with a puzzle with only 25 pieces.  You know…one that was left over from when my kids were young.  At least I could have finished it rather quickly and I could have posted it for everyone to admire.  But then again…a puzzle of Big Bird isn’t a hot commodity right now.

But no…I started with a puzzle with 550 pieces and to have that many little pieces of “cardboard” staring at me is just overwhelming.  Even though the box lid shows me what the finished product is supposed to look like, for some reason, I tend to look at all the individual 550 pieces.  And as strange as it may sound, it’s easy for me to then become rattled and stressed. 

I don’t know about you…but life during this time of quarantine can, at times, feel pretty much the same way.  Yes, we know Who is in control.  Yes, we know Who holds us in His hands.  Yes, we know that He wins in the end and what the final “picture” will be when we are blessed to spend eternity with Him.  But even though we know all that…we tend to look at all the crazy, individual puzzles pieces of life that don’t seem to fit in anywhere and as a result…it is so easy to become rattled and stressed.

Over Easter, we watched the classic movie, The Ten Commandments.  I’ve seen this movie more than once and have read the account in the Bible numerous times.  But something hit me this time that I’m not sure I have ever considered.  In the amazing scene where God parts the Red Sea and the Israelites walk on dry ground to get to the other side…I think I have always focused on the incredible, miraculous fact that He parted the raging waters.  But I never thought about the participants.  What would they have been thinking as they walked across?

I know what I would have been thinking.  Instead of being in awe of what God was doing for me…I’m guessing I would have spent my time wondering if and when the waters would come rushing over me.  I have a feeling I would have walked across with my neck cocked to either the right or left…watching every droplet of those waters, wondering if they would stay back.  Instead of keeping my eyes on where I was going and the glorious “picture” of being on the other side on dry ground…there’s a good chance I would have crossed in overwhelming fear of the water swirling around me and would have surely been rattled and stressed.  I’m afraid I would have missed the magnificence of the miracle, because my focus would have been on the spraying droplets around me.

Ahhhhh…once again…it all comes down to where my focus lies.  When I’m doing the puzzle, if I keep my focus on what the finished picture looks like…it’s easier to take one piece at a time and find its place.  During this time of quarantine, if I keep my focus on the One who already knows what the finished portrait of my life will be, it’s easier to take each individual puzzle piece of life more in stride…knowing it’s all part of His plan.  There really is no reason for me to go through life so “puzzled”.  One day at a time…one piece at a time…always being in awe of the miracles on the journey.

By the way, I’ve decided I’m going to keep working on my puzzle…one stinkin’ piece at a time.  But if I don’t have it done by the time the quarantine is over…I think I might just put it away and go for Big Bird.  Then I can boast that I completed a puzzle during my time at home…and I’ll just pray no one asks me how many pieces it was 

“So we don’t look at the troubles we can see now; rather, 

we fix our gaze on things that cannot be seen. 

For the things we see now will soon be gone, 

but the things we cannot see will last forever.”

2 Corinthians 4:18

Monday Morning Memo: If Jesus...

I’m guessing I don’t have to tell you that we are living in a different world than we were just a few weeks ago.  It seems like just about everything that used to be in our “normal”, isn’t normal anymore.  Many of us are home way more than we are used to…and when we do go out it seems as if we have entered a third world country.  

I have especially been struck by the difference in people in stores.  Where I used to hear lots of noise as shoppers visited with friends in the grocery store aisles…there is now an eerie silence.  I’ve observed that there isn’t even much eye contact between buyers; most act as if they have blinders on and are extremely focused to put their needed items in the cart as quickly as possible so they can exit the store.  Of course, many have now adorned masks, which just adds to my feeling of being in a different country.

This, of course, is all because of the hidden virus that has invaded our world and is the cause of our “normal” becoming abnormal.  It’s hard to understand how something that is unseen with our human eye can have such a global impact.  Words such as “social distancing” were never uttered before, but because of this virus they are words that control most of our actions.  Because of it we are now warned to stay away from others...wash our hands over and over…and just about bathe in sanitizer.

I think what has troubled me the most as I’ve seen others who have braved public locations, is the fear and anxiousness I see on their faces.  Many look scared.  This virus has put a fear in them that they have never known before or ever thought they would know in the U.S.A.  Something of this nature wasn’t ever supposed to rear its ugly head here in America and bring our daily routine to such a screeching halt.   We weren’t supposed to have our flourishing businesses suddenly be told to put a closed sign on the door, bringing incomes to a standstill.  This type of interruption should only happen in underdeveloped countries…not in such a modern, high-tech country such as ours.

But it has happened here and we have all been forced to deal with its serious consequences.  We can’t just ignore it and hope it goes away.  We have to face it and make the necessary changes in our lifestyle to not only keep ourselves healthy…but keep from infecting those around us.  

It is natural then that fear and anxiousness creep into the recesses of our mind.  Our world has been turned upside down in a relatively short time and it is normal to feel apprehensive about our future.  The question then becomes: How do we control our fear and anxiety so that it doesn’t take over our emotions every second of every day?

So that you know…I wrote this much of my post before yesterday…before Easter Sunday.  And if I’m honest…I didn’t have a clue how I would answer that question…so I stopped writing.  Sure, I knew of scriptures I could share…glib phrases that we all know well that I could list…but nothing I considered seemed “right”.  Then…Easter happened, and I knew the answer to my question.

We just came through probably the most important weekend for Christianity.  This is the weekend we spend time contemplating Jesus dying on the cross for you and for me…and then celebrate the fact that He rose again so we can spend eternity with Him.  As I watched one service after another yesterday, hearing over and over again what has been done for me…it suddenly hit me.  Do I really believe that this happened?  Do I really believe that Jesus died on the cross for me and rose three days later so that I can now serve a King who is alive and well?  If my answer is YES…I DO believe this happened…they why in the world would I let anything that happens on this earth control my emotions and cause me to be anxious and fearful?  Why would you?

💗If Jesus was powerful enough to rise again…He is powerful enough to handle those things that cause us fear.

💗If Jesus was powerful enough to rise again…He is powerful enough to handle our health and the health of our family.

💗If Jesus was powerful enough to rise again…He is powerful enough to handle our loneliness during this time of quarantine.

💗If Jesus was powerful enough to rise again…He is powerful enough to handle our finances and will provide for us what is needed.

💗If Jesus was powerful enough to rise again…He is powerful enough to handle ANYTHING that we will face today and tomorrow!

      

YES…if He was powerful enough to rise again…we don’t have to worry, fret, lose sleep or fall apart, screaming that the sky is falling…because He walks before us, beside us and stands behind us.  He is with us ALWAYS!  HE IS RISEN INDEED…HALLELUJAH! 

Monday Morning Memo: The Leaky Bed

If there is a word that means more than exhausted…that’s the word that would have described me on that particular night.  It had been a long day with three adorable, energetic grandsons, ages 18 months, 3 and 5.  I had finally put them all in bed and I wasn’t sure I even had the energy left to make it down the stairs.  I slowly descended, willing myself to put one foot in front of the other.  I had planned on taking a shower, but that wasn’t going to happen without first sitting down and resting for a while.

I had only been resting in the chair for five to ten minutes when I heard a voice.  My daughter’s home has an opening at the top of the stairs which allows a person to look down into the living room.  I looked up and I saw Elias’ face looking down at me.  In a very hesitant, soft voice he said, “Grandma, my bed is leaking”.  I asked him what he meant by that and he said, “My bed is leaking and it’s all wet.”

As I said, I had just put him to bed, so I knew that whatever he was talking about…wasn’t a result of him wetting the bed…but I had no clue what I was going to find.  The only thing I did know was the fact that I was going to have to now ascend back up the stairs, willing myself to put one foot in front of the other.

I made it up the mile-long staircase and into Elias’ bedroom and he had been correct…his bed was pretty well soaked.  The culprit?  A water bottle whose cap hadn’t been put on securely, causing its contents to saturate a very large area of the sheets and mattress cover.  I was hoping that whatever I found would be able to be dried up easily…but it didn’t take long to figure out that the bed would need to be stripped and remade with dry sheets.

I knew at that moment I had a decision to make.  I could let Elias know that this was the absolute last thing I needed to happen and ask him how in the world he could have let this “tragedy” occur.  Or, I could take a big breath, count to ten, and ask Jesus to give me the strength to get the work done.  Fortunately, in a very rare moment for me, I made the choice to do the latter and just get the work done, without having a yelling scenario play out.

Before long, the bed was put back together and I had re-tucked Elias into his dry, cozy bed.  I picked up the wet sheets and as I was getting ready to walk out his door, I again heard his soft voice say, “Thank you Grandma”.  Do you know what?  After those sweet words…I wasn’t quite as tired 

There are so many occurrences in our day in which we have a choice to make.  A choice to either explode…letting someone else know exactly how upset we are with them…or a choice to take a deep breath and realize that voicing our anger will only hurt more than it helps.  On that particular night…I chose to stay calm…but trust me…that isn’t always the normal for me.  It’s so easy to act and then think…and as a result…relationships can be easily damaged.

This is a stressful time and many people are on their last nerve.  It’s so easy to feel justified in getting upset and lashing out at those around us.  Psalm 37:8 tells us, “Stop being angry!  Turn from your rage!  Do not lose your temper – it only leads to harm.”  This is one of those verses that we know to be true…but so hard to live out in the nitty gritty of life.  But I believe it is possible if our focus and trust is in Jesus, the One who empowers us to look more and more like Him.  When I am exhausted…He is not.  When I am at the end of my rope…He is not.  When I feel all hope is gone…He IS my hope! 

Let’s make a point today to stop for a second before we react to a stressful situation…taking a big breath while asking Jesus to help us respond in the right way.  We need to remember that this may be just another “leaky bed” experience and it isn’t worth saying something that will hurt our relationships.  Who knows...our response just might diffuse a volatile situation and bring some calmness to these very unsettling days.    

Monday Morning Memo: A Wall? Not Required!

As I reflect on our recent trip to Israel, I am still amazed and humbled that I even had the opportunity to see the places I read about in the Bible.  I never thought that this would ever be a possibility and at times it still feels like a dream and not reality.

Israel was nothing like I expected.  Honestly, I’m not really sure what I thought it would be like…but it didn’t take long to realize that it was so much more than I anticipated.  The sights, sounds and people were at times overwhelming, as I was taken back to those days when Jesus walked where I was walking.  As I sat in the Garden of Gethsemane, I imagined Jesus praying to His Father, knowing what was ahead for Him.  As we made our way through the Old Jerusalem market, I pictured Jesus making his way through the area as people jeered, spit on him and yelled “Crucify Him”.  And as I sat by the Garden Tomb, I was forced to grapple with the truth of what He did for me on Calvary. 

Then, there was the Western Wall…also known as the Wailing Wall.  I’ve heard about it and read about it, but I couldn’t believe I was actually standing at it.  What an experience.  Jewish tradition states that God’s presence rests on this wall which is the last remnant of King Solomon’s original Temple, which housed the Ark of the Covenant over 2,000 years ago.  As a result, people from all faiths travel to this wall to cry out to God to answer their prayers and heal them from their ailments.

As I’m sure you have seen, many also place slips of paper containing written prayers to God into the cracks in the wall.  More than a million prayer notes are placed there each year.  They are written in just about every language and vary from a few words to very long requests.  They are written on a wide variety of papers, including colored paper, notebook paper and even bubblegum wrappers.  It is told that the Rabbi of the Western Wall, also receives hundreds of letters each year addressed to “God, Jerusalem” and he folds those letters and places them in the wall also.

According to Jewish law, none of these notes can be thrown away because they are considered to be letters to God.  So twice a year, the Rabbi and his assistants collect the notes left in the Wall and bury them in the Jewish cemetery on the Mount of Olives.

For me, it was a very powerful moment to be standing at the wall praying for my concerns, along with requests that we had collected from our church family at home.  As I stood there, I felt so blessed to know that even though my time there was indescribable, I don’t need a wall to pray at. I don’t need a place with cracks in which to put my requests on folded pieces of paper.  God’s presence is just as much in my home as I cry out to Him, as it was that day at the wall.  God’s presence is alive and well and no matter where I am or what I am doing…I can call out to Him every single moment of every day.  What a blessing…what a privilege. 

These days we are living through, need to be filled with prayer to our all-powerful God who is everywhere.  We have the opportunity to lift our requests to Him…taking our needs, along with the needs of those around us, to His throne.  We don’t have to mail our requests to Jerusalem for Him to hear us, nor do we have to fly there to place them in a wall.  Our God is alive and well and wants us to cry out to Him today, right where we are.

I will forever be thankful that I was blessed to visit Israel and experience all that it has to offer.  But I don’t want to spend my time basking in those days, neglecting to live in the present, seeking Him to heal our land.  There are so many who need to hear about what Jesus did for them so that their sins can be forgiven and they can spend eternity with Him.  Today is the day to boldly go to the throne of grace.  He is waiting…will you spend time with Him today?

“The Lord hears his people when they call to him for help.
He rescues them from all their troubles.”

Psalm 34:17

“In those days when you pray, I will listen.”

Jeremiah 29:12 

Monday Morning Memo: Taking it to God's Throne

As some of you know, last October I began a ministry entitled, “Throne Thursday”.  Each Thursday, I send out an email and post on Facebook that anyone can send me a prayer request on that day and I promise to take his or her concern to God’s throne.  I had no idea how this new idea would be accepted or if anyone would allow me the opportunity to pray on their behalf…but I knew God was calling me to do it so I better obey!

The response has been overwhelming.  Many people have contacted me with requests that are heavy on their heart… and it has been such a blessing to lift up those needs to our all-powerful God.  Some have told me that they have an unspoken request, which is just fine (God knows all the details!), and some have shared with me more information so that I know specifically how to pray.  To date, I have over 100 requests for which I am seeking His throne on others’ behalf.  

Hebrews 4:16 says, “Let us come boldly to the throne of grace”.   Do you know what I love about this verse?  It doesn’t say, “Let the ministers of your church come boldly to the throne of grace”.  Nor does it say, “Let only the elders of the church come boldly to the throne of grace.” It says, “Let US come boldly to the throne of grace”!  Isn’t that amazing!  All of us can approach our all-powerful God sharing with Him our needs and concerns…along with the needs and concerns of others.  What a blessing!

Which leads me to the second half of my ministry.  I knew when I began Throne Thursday that there was a second half to what God was calling me to do…and I have been praying ever since for His timing.  With all that is transpiring in our world today…I felt God telling me this past week that now is the time to introduce how YOU can now be involved!

I understand there are certain prayer requests and burdens that you do not want shared with everyone.  The requests that are shared with me are kept in confidence and I only share them with my Jesus.  But, I also know there are other requests that come up, where you really need everyone praying…but it is sometimes hard to know how to ask others to take your need to God’s throne.  And, there are also needs that come up where waiting until Throne Thursday to share just isn’t feasible.   

Now, to help you share with others your prayer concerns, I have put together a Facebook group entitled, “Taking it to God’s Throne”.  This will be a private group, where only the members will be able to see the posts that are made.  If you join this group, you will be able to post a prayer concern that you may have, AND you will be able to pray for others’ requests that are posted.  As you are able to encourage others during their time of need, I guarantee you that you will be blessed over and over again for taking their need to God’s throne.

I would ask that you be patient with me as I get this up and rolling.  I may make mistakes and mess this up…but I promise to do my best to connect you with others in our world who need prayer.  I also want this to be a group where I can encourage you in your walk with Jesus.  I will share encouraging quotes, scriptures and anything else that He impresses on me to share.

Just like Throne Thursday, there needs to be some guidelines and “rules”.  So, this is what I have put together at this point…they may be ratified, changed or added to in the days to come:

1.   PLEASE do not add prayer concerns where you list other people’s names without their permission!  Just because this will be a private group, does not mean you have permission to share the names of others.  I will remove any post that is not appropriate.

2.  This will not be a counselling page…so PLEASE refrain from giving others a list of advice to “solve” their problem.  This is a place to share your concerns so that others can pray on your behalf and for you to lift their needs up in prayer.  A simple “I’ll be praying for you!” will go far to let that person know you care and are praying.

3.   PLEASE be intentional on checking this page often so that you can be informed as to the current requests.  If you don’t know…you can’t pray!

4.    Make sure you pray for the requests!  That may seem a little ridiculous to make that a guideline…but it is so easy to say we will pray for something or someone and we have every intention to…but then we don’t.  Keep a journal…or write yourself a note on your mirror…or have your phone remind you to pray.  I have found it is very do-able…you just have to be intentional!

So how can you join?  Just search for the group “Taking it to God’s Throne” on Facebook and then ask to join this group.  If you are already a Facebook friend of mine…you may get an invitation from me to join…but again, I am new to this so please be patient.  If you have friends who you think might want to be a part of this ministry, by all means let them know about it.

I feel bad because I know that some of you aren’t on Facebook so this will not be available to you.  I am praying about other possible ways to include everyone, so hopefully I will get an inspiration as to how we can put something else together.

We live in a time when our prayers are greatly needed and it is something that ALL of us can do, whether we are out and about or quarantined at home.  So, let’s work together to boldly take our needs to His throne!

Monday Morning Memo: Grin Events, Face-Plants & Paths

Well, we never know what a day…or week…will bring, do we?  This has surely been a week for the books, as they say.  Schools are closed, churches have had to go to online services, and people are fighting over toilet paper.  Yep, you just can’t make these things up.

These past days made it difficult to figure out what I should write about today.  Some people are very worried, aren’t sleeping and are truly scared of getting this nasty virus that is in our world.  Others aren’t concerned at all and are going through each day just as they always have.  Hopefully the majority of us are somewhere in between and are being diligent in making sure we do what is necessary to stay as healthy as possible.

I finally came to the conclusion that most people may just need something to smile about today.  And what better way to accomplish that than to post a picture of an adorable 18-month-old in his grandma’s slippers 

As I shared with you a few weeks ago, following our trip to Israel, I had the opportunity to care for my three grandsons, ages 1, 3 and 5, while their parents went to Israel for 13 days.  I was so glad I was able to be there…but if I’m honest…I now know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is a reason why we have our children when we are young!  I kept wondering the first few days why I was so exhausted each evening after I put them to bed.  I mean, I raised three children and while I remember it being tiring, I sure didn’t remember it being this tiring.  And then it hit me.  Yes, I raised three children…but that was 30 years ago!  This old body of mine sure ain’t what it used to be and I need to realize that some of my “get up and go”…has “gone up and went”!

In spending those days with my grandsons, I learned more about their likes and dislikes.  One of the things I learned about Ezra, this precious boy wearing my slippers, is that he is a shoe-a-holic.  He absolutely loves putting on other people’s shoes.  Oftentimes it was just one shoe…so he would be stomping around the house with one shoe on and one shoe off…but just as happy as could be.  It just brought him so much joy.

So, I want to share with you today just a few quick nuggets of inspiration that I thought of as I watched him parading around:

1.     I need to find joy in the little things of life.  If I wait until some big event happens…that I think will bring me great joy…I may miss some of the smaller “grin events” that occur every day.

2.    I need to be willing to do things that may seem bigger than what I can handle.  My slippers were so much bigger than Ezra’s feet…but he didn’t let that stop him.  Even when he fell a couple times when the slippers got ahead of him…he still jumped right back up, grinned from ear to ear, and carried on.  Obviously, he felt the joy of the moment was worth the temporary times of face-planting.

3.    While I thoroughly enjoyed watching Ezra walk in my slippers, do I really want him walking in my shoes of life?  In other words, if he decides to walk a similar path that I have walked in my life…would that be a good thing or would it be better if he chose a different path?  I know I am being watched by him and his brothers, so are they seeing me live in a way that leads them to Jesus, or do my “steps” lead them on a path they shouldn’t follow?  Hmmm…I may need to think about that for a while.

During these days of uncertainty, let’s be diligent in looking for those smaller “grin events” that may come our way.  And then let’s see what we can do to send a “grin event” to someone else who may need to find a reason to smile.

I hope we are also willing to maybe step out of our comfort zone and do something that seems a little impossible.  You may face something that will seem way bigger than you are capable of accomplishing, just like Ezra faced by much too large slippers.  Sure, tackling the unexpected may cause us to face-plant once in a while, but I think in the end the joy will be worth the pain.

Finally, let us remember that we are being watched.  Not just by our family…but there are others in our sphere of influence…who are watching to see how we are reacting to this current world event.  If they see us freaking out and crying that the sky is falling…they may follow us down that same path…and we wouldn’t want to cause that route to be any more crowded than it already is  

“Don’t be afraid, for I am with you.

Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you.
I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.”

Isaiah 41:10